这本书特别适合在一段关系前，或者在感情中迷失自我的小伙伴阅读。感知自己，认识自己，当你内心深处够丰富，快乐，知足，你就不会容易因为对方的失联或者小争执患得患失，个人觉得了解自己，爱自己的前提再去进入一段关系，这样感情就会更加自如，稳定，因为爱人首先先要爱己。
This books is an eye –opening for me. I have learned a lot from it.Relationship not only has to be based on love, respect, and honesty; it has to be interdependent—where two strong people love each other but never to the point of sacrificing their own happiness or values. To me, marriage, or any relationship, comes down to two people walking side by side through life, learning alone and together, and sharing what they’ve learned with each other as they keep growing and expanding.
And two people in love can attain both Interdependence and balance. With that balance, you each become a pillar strong enough to sustain love while living side by side. One partner doesn’t need to lean on, or crash into, or merge with the other. A strong pillar stands straight on its own. It’s perfect just by being itself, and from that place it chooses to share and to stand with another.
个人觉得最好的爱情是互相滋养、陪伴，共同成长，势均力敌，当两个人在一起的时候可以很舒服的状态放飞自我，我懂你的自由，你懂我的疯，我陪你一起欣赏夕阳西下，你带我到世界各个角落吃各种好吃的。。。。。。哈哈哈