"the school has the school rules, the home has rules" is often in a word, can be asked "what is discipline? what rules do you have?" a lot of people immediately transfixed.
the house rules. every family rules are different. when eating in my home i should be the words of "food, lay not language." after dinner, can not put the chopsticks on the top of the bowl, to put it on the table, this means you have to eat well. if there are bones on the table, bones, etc. to put them into the bowl with chopsticks. do these things also cannot leave, wait until everyone ate can be away from the table.
our family has a house rules - matter however three. one time in the park for a walk after supper, because been stepping on a stool, so i took out a piece of paper, clean bench, i lost a lost. a clean workers came out, said: "you this child how so not bred, litter everywhere." i listened to her, my face red with immediately. apologize as i go to pick up today as he ran into the trash can, this to put the cleaner's anger.
dan, is the family ethos, dan once destroyed, this family thinking with corruption. it gives bad reputation is going the rounds and then no one will keep company with the people, want to change at this time is too late.
my family trait is "filial piety" as the saying goes, hundred good filial first, we want to filial piety the parents and elders. when our parents getting older, more can't talk back, all want to consider parents. even if they say no, also want to kind of talk. told us to do things, do not delay, as far as possible to help parents, so as to achieve "hundred good filial first".
dan is the house rules, have good manners can in an orderly way, have a good family trait can better based on the society.
“校有校规,家有家规”是人们常挂在嘴边的一句话,可问到“家规是什么?你家有什么家规?”很多人就立刻呆住了。
家规。每户人家的规矩都不一样。我家在吃饭时真应了那句“食不言,寝不语”。吃完饭后,不可以将筷子放在碗的上方,要放在桌子上,这就代表你已经吃好了。如果桌子上有鱼刺、骨头等等要用筷子将它们扫入碗内。做完这些事还不能走,要等到大家都吃完才可离桌。
我们家还有一个家规—事不过三。有一次晚饭后在公园里散步,由于凳子上被人踩过,所以我掏出一张纸,将凳子擦干净,随手一丢就没了。一位清洁工人走了出来说:“你这小孩子怎么这么没教养,随地乱丢垃圾。”我听她这么一说,我的脸立马红了。我一边道歉一边跑去吧至今捡起来丢到垃圾桶里去,这才平息了清洁工的怒火。
家风,是一家子的风气,家风一旦败坏了,这家子的思想也就跟着败坏了。这给坏名声就一传十,十传百,到时候就没有人愿意跟这家人交往了,这时候想改就来不及了。
我家的家风是“孝”俗话说的好,百善孝为先,我们要孝顺父母和长辈。当我们的父母渐渐老去,就更不能顶嘴了,凡是要考虑父母。即使他们说的不对,也要和和气气的说话。叫我们做事,不要推辞,尽量帮父母的忙,这样才能做到“百善孝为先”。
家风就是家规,有了好的规矩才能有条不紊,有了好的家风才能更好的立足于社会。